Mommy’s First Kink Con

So this past weekend was the Grand Fetish Affiar hosted by the incredible owners of a local dungeon space. This event was one of the first big fetish-based conventions in the true “Cincinnati” area, which in itself was a HUGE deal!

Now for the good shit; my experiences!

As I said, this was my first big convention, as I have made lifestyle events a more prominent part of my life as a Dominant. And even with my limited knowledge of gatherings like this one, I can absolutely say I loved every moment of it. I have never seen so many beautiful, open-minded, knowledgable, and kinky individuals in one area simultaneously; a view that could only be described as incredibly heart-warming. I’ve clearly understood that people like me exist, I mean you’re all over the internet, but in person, in the flesh, is otherworldly.

Seeing so many people doing the most interesting, and deviant things was the most attractive thing I could say I’ve seen in my life. I saw cold branding, E-Stim scenes, so many impact scenes, so many talented riggers, such proud submissives, and SO MUCH F*CKING. Seeing people in this intimate, raw state… I just can’t put the sexiness into words.

Now for me personally, I had the luxury of dipping my toes into so many avenues! Not only was I able to schedule make time for my own scenes like an impact scene and a mummification scene with 2 absolutely stunning femme subs, lead my personal sub around for his first convention, and end every night with my strap in his holes, but I was also able to be a part of many other scenes like a free-use groping, cheering on rough body scenes. I also was able to meet some incredible individuals and take multiple classes on different avenues of kink to continue developing and honing in fetish skills.

I am certain when I say that doing this, seeing this happen, and experiencing this lifestyle, helped me fall in love with kink all over again. In the professional world, sometimes things can become stagnant, especially when you have an obvious niche that clients see you for regularly, so you tend to fall into a loop of doing the same scenes frequently; so being able to get the chance to spread my wings more and truly see the beauty in ever avenue of fetish gave me a breath of fresh air.

I recommend everyone in this lifestyle, whether dipping their toes in or having been in the scene for decades, make their way to at least one or two events in their lifetime. There are no other serotonin and dopamine boosters that you can find like the happiness and completion you feel surrounded by people who are like you, who find home here.